Inner Feminine: What Can Happen If A Man Is In Conflict With His Own Feminine Aspect?

If you were to tell the average guy that he has a feminine inside, a big scowl might appear on his face. After this, he could make it clear that this is not something he owns and say that there is nothing feminine about him.

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You could even say that this is something that is a fairy tale and that only those with their heads in the clouds would believe it. If this were to happen, it would probably show that he believes the word ‘feminine’ means feminine.

Two parts

Actually, it is related to a certain aspect and different traits will emerge from it, and that is why both a woman and a man will have a feminine element in them. In the same way, both a man and a woman will have a masculine element.

One way of looking at the feminine would be to say that it will relate to a man’s feelings, while the masculine will relate to his thoughts. In other words, the former will relate to his emotional self/body and the latter will relate to his mind/intellect.

a being divided

Now even though a man is made up of both parts, it might give the impression that he is not. What this will mean is that overall you could come off as emotional.

Some people might describe you as stoic, while others might say that you are emotionally closed off. Either way, you’ll usually look calm and not quite in the sea, emotionally speaking.

A very different experience

If you were to get into a relationship, you could end up with a woman (or a man, as it can still come out the same) who is emotionally out of control. At this point, this will arguably prove that ‘opposites attract’.

This is because it will seem that they are two radically different people, at least in this aspect. The man will seem stable and the women unstable.

more evolved

Man, while you may not have a problem with this at first, you could soon end up feeling restricted and fed up. He might believe that the woman needs to recover and stop being controlled by her feelings.

He might say that this shows that she is unable to control her thoughts, and her thoughts are seen as controlling how she feels. Before long, he could end up criticizing her and if her behavior doesn’t change, he could end up cutting ties with her.

a pattern

If this were to happen and he were to look back on his life, what he may find is that this is not the first time he has been in this position. In fact, he could see that this has happened several times.

Along with this, she was able to see that she has spent time with many other women who are like this. Thanks to this, he was able to believe that this is how women are and believe that he needs to stay away from them and not allow himself to become attached to a woman.

Mirror

However, while it may seem like this is exactly what women tend to be, there is probably much more to it than this. Ultimately, this will be an assessment that this extroverted intellect/mind has made.

In all likelihood, the experiences he continually has with women, and especially the women he ends up with, reflect the fact that he is in conflict with his own feminine aspect. So instead of seeing what’s happening in a very literal way, he needs to see it in a symbolic way.

a closer look

When you are around a woman who is emotionally at sea, you will feel uncomfortable and soon have the urge to pull away. If you were to wonder what this reminds him of, what you’ll soon discover is that he feels maverick when it comes to her own emotional side and does his best to keep this part of him in check.

Therefore, the women he is attracted to and who are attracted to him are reflecting what he needs to integrate within himself. If he embraced this side of his nature and was comfortable with his feelings, emotions and impulses, he wouldn’t have to end up with a woman who nearly drowned him in his feelings.

truly focused

What this illustrates is that there is a big difference between acting stoic and being emotionally strong. In the first case, a man may be emotionally repressed, so he attracts women who are emotionally unstable and worries him so much.

In the second case, a man will not be emotionally repressed and will have the ability to face his feelings and overcome his emotional wounds. Being so, he will attract more balanced women.

Awareness

If a man can relate to this and is ready to integrate more, he may need to seek outside support. This is something that can be done with the help of a therapist or healer.