Confident women in online chat rooms

Many women come to me because they are having trouble getting a new partner or with an existing partner. Those who have trouble finding someone often go to chat rooms and forums hoping to find someone there. Unfortunately, many of them are quite naive and gullible and are tricked and lured by selfish guys who lie to try and get what they want.

Let’s look at some of the facts. If a woman or someone pretending to be a woman walks into a chat room, there will be hundreds of guys asking her to speak quickly. If a man goes there, he will be lucky if he gets an offer and it would be from a gay man pretending to be a woman, since women usually don’t look for chats and they get so many questions that they don’t need to search for people to ask.

Men can call chat lines and pay for chats there, so it stands to reason that they would try to get them for free online to save money, but there is nothing in this for the woman. There is also the fact that most men are looking to talk about sex or expect to meet the woman and will steer the conversation towards her age, what she looks like, where she lives and sex if they can. When you’re a woman and you get hundreds of questions asking where you live and what you look like, it’s boring, predictable and a total waste of time. Women who really want to meet would normally go to a dating agency. It is safer and saves a lot of time.

Women tend to go online to chat while waiting for the cake to cook in the oven or for the wash to finish its cycle, that doesn’t mean they’re not happy at home with their husband or that they’re sexually frustrated or want to cheat. But men often seek a conversation because they are bored at home and want to chat about sexual issues, to relieve themselves, and if possible it would be even better to find us. For the boys it is a fishing expedition, where they throw the net and see who bites. The females are the fish and have less reason to bite. So some of the men will offer them money to meet up and some of them will get very nasty and angry when they refuse to meet up.

In their effort to get sex talk or hookups with women, men often lie, pretending to be single because very few women will even consider meeting a man who is married or in a relationship. Pretend to be more handsome or younger. Pretending to be rich and have loads of money that they want to spend on her. In some cases, it can be said that the guy has a mental illness or wants to feel superior to women instead of wanting to sex chat.

If you are a woman who wants to chat, remember that many men lie, remember that many so-called singles are married or in a relationship and men who say their age is often older than they say, many of them lie. about your work. and other circumstances. Above all, many lie about why they are asking to have a conversation with you.

The safety of women in online chat rooms is not just about not meeting, you should be able to meet if you want to, but about not being anxious to trust everything people say and remembering that they are strangers with ulterior motives.

The worst that can happen is that you meet the wrong person and you get raped, murdered or beaten up badly, maybe kidnapped and your loved ones never see you again. But why put up with the best thing that can happen, which may be verbal abuse from someone you can’t track or punish and who thinks it’s safe to be mean to you when you refuse to Skype them topless?