What does it mean when a husband says he needs time apart to think?
Sometimes I hear of wives whose husband has left them “because he needs some time to think.” That’s pretty much the extent of what he tells them and he rarely digs a bit deeper and offers an explanation of what “thinking” really means. Wives are often dissatisfied with his...
Matthew Arnold and Three Classes – The Barbarians, the Philistines and the Mob
Matthew Arnold is really a great fighter for the real culture that prevails in London society. He finds the realm of materialism that is trying to strangle real culture. So, in this chapter, Arnold divides the society of England into three classes: the aristocratic class, the middle class, and...
Love sows, but reaps losses
WATCHING my wife work on a labor of love, curating an album for our Nathanael Marcus, in the middle of a special day for deceased babies (from my unique point of view), and I learn something new, again. He loves sows… but reaps losses. He goes out of his...
The gay marriage plebiscite is dividing Australia
Now that registration to vote in the plebiscite is closing, the debate is in full swing about the rights of homosexual people to marry. Families are equally at odds with each other, as younger people can’t see why people of the same gender who love each other shouldn’t have...
Top 10 ugly musicians and beautiful women
It’s a fact of life that ugly guys don’t end up with hot women, despite what propaganda movies like Shrek, Groundhog Day, and Jaws II have tried to teach us. That is unless you make a living playing in a band, it doesn’t even have to be a believable...
Modern Association Vote "So as not to suffocate my truth"
Do you find yourself programmed to believe that relationships are meant to last forever? Are you in a romantic partnership following the vows of “Until death do us part”? What happens when one or both individuals have a change in values, sexual needs, or personal desires over a period...
Nigerian Praise and Worship Songs
Praise and worship have been an integral part of life in Nigeria for centuries. This used to happen even before modern Christian missionaries set foot in the country. At that time, the natives used to sing songs in praise of their god(s). These songs were sung when the rain...
Top Ten Famous Cougars
1. Mrs. Robinson – The original cougar. This was the first time a woman had seduced a much younger man on screen. It was a preview of things to come. 2. Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher – 15 years old Demi officially kicked off the “Cougar Revolution” by marrying...
What to do when your husband no longer loves you
Hearing that your husband no longer loves you is probably on the list of the three phrases that you most fear hearing. Unfortunately, many of the wives I hear from have recently heard their husbands say these words. Sometimes the husband will make this admission in the middle of...
Perceived power is achieved power
Whether you’re a consultant or a contractor, the amount of power or influence you have in a contract has nothing to do with how much you’re given. It all comes down to the question of perceived power that your client, reporting supervisor, or even your co-workers have from you....