A man needs to make sex exciting for a woman

When women see men, they think of sex. It could also be said that men think the same when they see women. But the reasons are very different. When men see women, they get excited and think about having sex. But women don’t get turned on by men. They only know that men are determined to have sex. A woman accepts that men notice her. But the real pleasure is getting the attention of a man she admires. She knows that if he finds her attractive, he will put in the effort to get to know her. That is the emotional power of a woman to be desired that men do not experience. For gay men, her sex drive can deplete any similar emotional rewards.

Women don’t think of sex in terms of explicit erotic arousal and genital stimulation the way men do. Women often think of sex in terms of a man’s sexual passion and romantic scenarios. A man’s desire is communicated in his sense of purpose, the firmness of his kiss and his touch on his body. His desire to possess and penetrate her may be evident.

Especially at the beginning of a sexual relationship, a woman can enjoy her man’s erection and the fact that he wants to have sex with her. She can enjoy herself pleasuring her and engaging in loving and affectionate foreplay. Intercourse itself is an opportunity for kissing and fondling. She may be motivated to engage in explicit genital stimulation. Some women say they stop having orgasms. But you can’t forget how to orgasm. They confuse emotional factors early in relationships with orgasm.

Most women realize that men appreciate when they present themselves in a sexy way. Men have more difficulty understanding that women want them to behave in a certain way to satisfy their needs. A woman accepts a man as a lover when she considers him a worthy partner and partner. She feels love for him when he responds to her wish to take care of him. Women’s nurturing instincts make them want a man to be sensitive to the social and emotional aspects of relationships that are important to women. Women do this when they care about a man. A woman stops doing this when a man has repeatedly rebuffed her attempts to care about his well-being.

Women don’t particularly want sex, but it’s a small price to pay for all the benefits men provide. At least to start. Over years and decades, the sexual charge builds as sex becomes increasingly emotionally and romantically meaningless. A woman knows from experience that whatever sexual play a couple engages in as a warm-up, sexual activity with a man always ends with intercourse. By accepting quickies or sex in unusual places (not always as a bedtime routine) a man allows a woman to be the object of her desire without her having to put in as much effort.

Men pleasure women in part to enjoy their own arousal. They are also motivated to make an effort not to feel guilty that sexual pleasure is so one-sided. But for a woman the pleasure is not so great as to insist. So, a woman waits for a man to offer himself, and if she feels in the mood for some sensual pleasure, she allows him to caress and massage her body.

Some women enhance their own (and a lover’s) apparent sexual prowess by faking an orgasm to meet porn expectations. Other men complain that their partners make no effort to make sex exciting for them. They never articulate why a woman should do this. But it’s clear that women naturally don’t provide the arousal that men ideally expect.

Marriage and motherhood don’t make women feel sexy because a woman feels drained, unappreciated, and unattractive. A woman feels sexy when she knows that she is attractive to men. So being kid-free and dressing for a romantic dinner can help. Thinking about having sex when a woman is aware of a man’s attention to her at dinner can heighten anticipation and create a more passionate act. When a man admires her, the woman feels more willing to have sex because she feels more appropriate. When sex becomes expected or mundane, resentment and boredom set in.

Romance is associated with the time before a couple has a sexual relationship. During this period, each person continues to invest in the other. But over time and with the security of the marriage, they take each other for granted. Men become self-absorbed in their own importance as breadwinners. Then they wonder why women don’t want to have sex with them.

Men enjoy sexually stimulating a lover. It never seems like a strange coincidence to them that sex is exactly what they are looking for. Men need to become more socially compliant and participate in the investment in a partner’s sexual life if they want to interest a woman in having sex with them. Considering their interest in sex, men don’t make much of an effort to bring variety to sex. Men’s sexual needs tend to be met very easily through intercourse, but this does not make a woman feel loved and appreciated.

Men are simple… We love your tits and your ass! And we stay for what you’re willing to do with them. So if you want to conquer a man, you don’t need ten steps, you need one… it’s called a blowjob! (film ‘The ugly truth’ 2009)