When you have feelings for a girl, don’t make this mistake
When you are attracted to a girl and you want her to be your girlfriend or you want to go out with her, don’t sit around playing it safe hoping she’ll fall in love with you and eventually be intimate with her.
… That’s a big mistake.
let me explain
You will have a girl that you like and for whom you have developed feelings and want to be intimate with her or be her lover…
… meanwhile, you don’t express your desire for her, you don’t let her know that you are interested in her.
You refrain from expressing your feelings and desire for her because you don’t want to ruin your chances.
You don’t want to try anything sexual and then ruin your chance of GETTING HER.
You’re afraid that if you try anything, she’ll think you’re trying to get into her pants and then she’ll leave you.
So you want to play it safe so you don’t get rejected: you’ll be nice to her, you’ll give her advice, you’ll be her best friend, all to give her the impression that you’re not sexually interested in her and just want to be her friend… hoping that she will fall in love with you and eventually get intimate with her.
Or you will probably want to wait for the right moment to express your desire for her.
Big mistake.
Fact is girls look to boys to make a move
They want us to be the first to profess our feelings.
They expect us to get romantic and sexual with them first.
Girls don’t express their desire until a guy does.
When a girl is attracted or has feelings for you, she won’t do it. make it obvious…she won’t come closer and then she’ll kiss you. She will rarely give you overt signs that she wants you to make a move or that she wants you to kiss her.
A girl does not show her interest in a boy she is attracted to until she realizes that the boy is interested in her.
She doesn’t want to expose herself and risk appearing easy. To her, it’s not ladylike.
Sure, the aggressive girl will act on her feelings, but either way, it’s you, the guy, who takes the initiative.
When you refrain from expressing your desire for a girl…
…you’re going to lose her to another guy.
because it is not only another guy chasing herbut if you don’t show interest or express your desire for her, it will make her settle for someone else.
When you interact with a girl who you feel like she also has feelings for you (she’s attracted to you) and you don’t do anything (don’t let her know you’re romantically interested in her), she’s going to think…
- you don’t find her attractive and therefore you don’t like her
- or you’re gay and you don’t like girls
- or you’re a coward and you lack confidence (you’re not a man)
…whatever impression she makes of you, she will move on and eventually fall for another guy.
Or let me put it another way…
…another guy is going to win her heart and she’s going to have to choose him over you.
…Don’t let this happen to you
The more time you spend with a girl without being intimate with her or at least letting her know that you have a romantic interest in her beyond just friendship, the more you kill your chances that something intimate or sexual will NEVER happen between the two of you.
You may think that the longer you keep cool and be nice to her and give her advice and be her best friend and “respect” her too much to be intimate with her, the more she will like you and the easier it will be to get. intimate or sexual with her…
… NO.
She’s going to end up in the arms (and bed) of another guy.
The longer you wait to let her know that you have a romantic interest in her, the worse the situation will be.
Sure, be nice to a girl, be her best friend…
…but just being that, especially out of fear of being rejected or risking the girl’s disapproval, will get you nothing.
When you meet a girl you feel for…
…express your romantic interest and desire for her before another guy walks up and grabs her first.
Be proactive.
Take the iniciative.
Be a man and go after what you want – its.
Make the first move instead of waiting for her to act or make the first move.
You don’t need to verbalize your romantic interest in a girl as long as you’re too shy to do so… Let your interest in her to indicate that your desire for her goes beyond simple friendship.
There’s no shame in chasing a particular girl or woman… you just have to do it in an attractive way and not in a cowardly way like most men do. desperately chasing girls.
Hell! Make your sexual intentions acceptably obvious…not that you explicitly want to have sex with her, but let her know that you are NOT looking to just be her friend.
Don’t be afraid to express your feelings for a girl you like and want to date… she expects it.
And don’t wait for her to be intimate with you because it’s never going to happen.
Again, keep in mind…
…other guys are chasing her and she will have to do it to choose – you or the guy she texts and talks with on the phone every night before she goes to bed.
Don’t let another guy win her heart… do something quick… do it now and get that girl.
Now I understand…
A girl won’t look at you and then decide she loves you…
…she will like you (be attracted to you) because of the attractive behaviors you exhibit and, more importantly, how you make her feel emotionally and sexually.
So be attractive and desirable and capture her interest while showing your romantic intentions.
Here, she will now open up to your seduction and advances, and take advantage of them when you put them in front of her.
So there you have it…
…don’t lose a girl without doing anything.
Don’t play it safe with a girl or woman you find attractive and want to be intimate with.
There is no shame in showing interest in a girl. You’re human with a wish… so is the girl. So let him know your intention.
Girls want us to behave like men.
So you have to be willing to put yourself out there and risk rejection to get a girl to open up. If you are hoping for for a girl to be intimate with you instead of being the one to make it happen will disappoint you.
I hope this article has given you a deep insight into girls and how to get a girl.
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