When Miscommunication Lies in Marriage

Bad communication techniques are essential in a good marriage and friendship relationship: before the red light danger zone is activated.

Wearing glasses can help focus for clear vision during a situation. Marital misunderstandings, complications or a misperceived situation seeking attention for clear vision, when one or both partners are misunderstanding or lack listening skills.

Broken glasses determine that one or both partners are unaware of what is of relevant importance, indicating that one’s vision and perception is impaired. One or both partners may not be seeing the correct or constructive facts.

Body reading and facial expressions represent any contradiction, dishonesty, disbelief, behavior, manners or doubts. It can also indicate concern, discomfort or disapproval.

Eye contact at all times during miscommunication can support closeness, awareness, enlightenment, understanding, insight, and intellectual awareness. Unconscious thoughts, patterns, habits, and attitudes can rise to the surface and symbolize an understanding of something that you must be aware of in order to understand each other. When one partner avoids looking into the other’s eyes, it is objective evidence that he/she is not ready to converse intellectually.

Literally, the expression, words, or actions can represent stopping and looking within. Before you focus on your partner. Trust your intuition and instincts. If during a heated situation one of the partners becomes extremely negative towards you, simply learn to walk away by suggesting that we take five, five can refer to five minutes of cooling down and then come together to resolve. It’s amazing what five minutes of complication analysis can bring to your awareness. The most important thing when making the decision to follow the rules of communication, such as taking minutes, both partners must agree; otherwise, one of the partners may feel neglected, which will lead to further activation of the red light. Avoid this situation to strengthen and grow in your marriage and friendship.
Otherwise, this condition will represent a path of coexistence of obstacles. Avoid critical gaze and faults in others: alternatively focus on choice to demand self-awareness of the situation and its importance.

Ignorance of eye contact indicates your refusal to accept your partner’s point of view. This manner or attitude indicates that you are one-sided in your thinking. If one is angry with a colleague, it is safe to say that it is time to calm down, this time can provide time for understanding and reconnection, instead of playing the blame game, as in my personal experience, blaming others does not is the appropriate response, we must first work within ourselves to understand the faults or pain of others. When we allow ourselves to blame or blame others, we are simply masking our own agenda of our own fears in order to come to terms with our past painful experiences. Once you provide an avenue for self-awareness and an awareness of your own inner child experience of pain, you will begin to determine, immerse, and co-exist with your partner to work on mutual understanding.

Verbal fights are just as damaging as physical fights, if not worse, due to the fact that emotional abuse is taking place, which turns into mental abuse. Physical abuse is simply an intolerable period, if a partner wants to draw blood, it is a fair sign to say that you are not in a safe and comfortable place. Love does not require any tolerance for violence, simply unacceptable.
Sometimes one of the partners may forget to realize that they are sending painful messages to the other partner to ease the pain within themselves, causing the other partner more distress by subconsciously saying things unnecessary hurtful to protect one’s ego, the ego is the biggest part of the complication, from the beginning, as if one has relevant information to prove who is right or who is wrong, however, a couple can continue to weigh on the relationship by becoming controlling while hanging things over her head. That at some point you shared when there was a friendship and that partner took your strength of sharing that information as weakness. When the friendship begins to deteriorate, everything else follows, like sexual complications. One of the partners begins to feel dissatisfied. Then things tend to get worse, the yelling starts and both get frustrated, looking for friendship and more outside of the relationship.

Well, because now respect is lost, in another to reactivate the green light you must first stop at the red light and proceed with caution.

Somehow, both of you must stop and think before you step into a danger zone. To achieve communication, the first step is to stop and listen to each other. It doesn’t matter how painful. No one should say that it is easy. However, it provides an opportunity for challenge and reconnection.

If you have difficulty speaking without yelling, I suggest you start typing back and forth without speaking, paying attention to each other while sitting across from each other. Never in your temple of love, (bedroom) the place where you share intimate love, it is important that this sacred place contains only positive energy.

This teaches patients, connection, tranquility, understanding, friendship and, above all, communication. As for the inner child, don’t be afraid of what comes up, he begins to share things that may have come up from the past that contributed to or triggered your feelings to manifest in a certain way at the time. Subconsciously we tend to carry old habits that are deeply wounded within us. Also, we tend to undo our new treasure, to compensate for old wounds.

The three main complications of marital affairs are communication, finances, and sex. Communication that symbolizes inner vision and intuition from within can bring light to the relationship. You must start looking within yourself to understand your partner, many times affairs occur when a partner is not 110% focused and/or committed to exchanging their full love energy with their partner, one must realize when a partner has an affair, that partner is taking and accepting full responsibility, for their own lack of communication and dissatisfaction. By communicating, you can save your marriage from any mishap. That’s where friendship and mutual respect really come into play.

If you close your eyes to the truth or rejection: Regarding something or avoidance of intimacy. You may be expressing feelings of hurt, pain, or sympathy. Your partner may want to retract negative undertakings to turn things on in favor of commitment. Romance is present when everything else is going from strength to strength.

If your partner’s interest is not in the richness of the relationship, it denotes that you are not seeing clearly regarding some situation. It is possible that you are confusing the data, that your partner has lost interest a long time ago, to reignite the romance, there has to be a commitment of pure love and desire.

Conflict is part of life regardless, that is what provides a crutch for growth and when both partners are aware, they are aware of each other’s action and reaction towards each other and this in turn provides growth. within the relationship. However, it is important to have a structure for lasting potential growth in the same direction.

Communication and friendship are the key to a happy and lasting marriage.