The instructive of soft and tender kisses

You kissed a girl. Was it good though? Did you kiss her again? Did she remember him in a good way? Did he mysteriously become unavailable every time you tried to call her or make another appointment with her? Guys let me tell you. That first kiss is almost as important as the first impression he gets of you. The kiss you give a woman can mean the difference between a second date and you being the “always alone” troll. So, read on to find out how to kiss a woman in one of the two right ways: slowly and gently, while touching her face.

slowly and gently

Unless it’s that slow, romantic style, then forget everything you’ve seen in movies about kissing after a date. Sure, it’s possible that that hot, passionate kiss will make them tear their clothes off, but it’s not likely, especially if it’s the first kiss they’ve shared with this particular woman, unless the spark ignites so quickly. Slow and smooth does the trick. It doesn’t mean you’re gay, it means you want to take the time to learn how their lips feel, to experience their texture and taste. Keep your tongue in your own mouth. Suck on her lips lightly if the heat starts to build, but contract until she gives the appropriate response, such as licking her lips again, moaning, or sighing.

Proper Kiss/Touch Combination

Gently touching a woman’s face while kissing her or running your fingers through her hair will likely make it melt like butter. Holding her face in your hands can give her that lovesick daydreaming schoolgirl feeling. Do this and she will almost float into her house when you leave. This is not the rule for all women. Every woman likes something different, but most crave that soft, gentle kiss that makes them feel special. Be easy and kind and you can make her heart race. Finally, there are some important tips to remember, what not to do when kissing her.

The Don’ts

First, don’t stick your tongue down his throat right away and on top of not speaking French with your tongue, make sure you don’t go international with the rest of you, ie Roman hands and Russian fingers. If you go under his face, it should only be to hold his hands. Remember, you walk upright like your closest ancestors, so show it off. Of course, if she starts groping you, well, it’s your call. Keep all this in mind and you will be a shining example of a good man in her eyes. Slow, gentle and respectful is the key and if you want other keys to a memorable goodnight kiss, just ask and I’ll get back to you.