The difference between maternal attraction and sexual attraction!

Attraction and sexual attraction are two different things that most men and self-proclaimed dating coaches don’t seem to understand. Let’s clarify the difference. Attraction is something that can be used interchangeably with “curiosity, interest, intrigue, or a strong liking.” It does not mean the same thing as “pure sexual desire or carnal desire”.

I say this because most men have been taught to interpret mere indicators of a woman’s interest as signs that she is “sexually attracted” to them and therefore wants to have sex with them. Not quite. They just mean that and are not signs that she is in love or sexually attracted yet. In order for a woman to amplify feelings of mere interest or superficial attraction for her to a pure feeling of sexual attraction for you, two things must happen during the process of seduction or courtship.

1. She must want to chase you, as much as you want to chase her.

2. She must see you as the type of man who has sexual value. This is projected by having an “indifferent and sometimes even disinterested” behavior towards her, which, if the woman is interested in you, will undoubtedly make her invest in the interaction with you, so that you focus on her again and to that you want to talk to her and interact with her again.

The reason for this is that things of sexual and emotional value to a woman “require” work. Also, there is a cardinal rule in society that women decide if and when to have sex, not men. The reason for this is based on the economy of sex, that is, the fact that they only have one delicate sex cell which is the egg cell that determines their fate and we have millions of sex cells or sperm.

Therefore, a woman has to be the “selector or selector” as to who is going to fertilize that egg, not us. Therefore, she needs to feel like she chased us for sex as much as we chased her, when we’re under the covers about to have sex, to make her feel like she’s playing by this rule.

The way to get a woman to chase us is to say or do things in the interaction with her that make her “invested” in it, as much as we do, and even go so far as to get her to “chase”. U.S. Once again, we need to implant her feeling in her mind that she is also spending as much time and effort in interacting with us and in the courtship process as we are. Once we do this, then her feelings of mere interest in her will immediately amplify into sexual interest or attraction and she will be willing to sleep with us.

So therein lies the main difference between maternal attraction and sexual attraction. Knowing this difference can drastically improve your success with women!