Stripper salary: how to make him say yes

One of the questions new dancers ask me the most is “How do you get almost all the guys to say yes?” Although sometimes, like on a busy weekend night when there are more customers than dancers, it is quite easy to walk around and say, “Do you want to dance?” and someone is obliged to say yes. Other times it is not so easy. (More often in this economy, right?)

For example, have you ever had a nice conversation with a customer and didn’t know how to ask him to dance? So you let him ramble on about his annoying wife and kids, and if you do, you just hope “Do you want to dance?” when a new song starts playing … even though it has absolutely nothing to do with the conversation? I did that a lot when I started dancing. And I got used to that awkward silence … and then he said, “Uhhh … No. Not now.”

The key to getting him to say “YES!” it’s being in control of the conversation and sounding refined as you steer the conversation to its final lines. If you don’t take the time to build the foundation of the conversation and just jump to the closing line, you’ll come off as fake, greedy, and a salesman.

Here’s the good news, you don’t have to go through 4 years of trial and error and lose sales like I did! I’ll teach you how to identify your customer, build your conversations, and most importantly, tie the conversation to the closing line so that it flows more naturally. Once you do this, you will hear yes much more often.

Have you ever wondered why you are his “type” sometimes and not sometimes? One of the first things I teach is how to identify your customer. If you want to become a higher earning stripper, you must have the ability to better spot your clients. You may have noticed that some clients respond very well when you approach and snuggle with them right away, other clients need more personal space. If you use the wrong strategy when introducing yourself, he will immediately shut down and you will probably not get the sale. I can teach you how to evaluate each client before you approach them based on their dress, appearance, body language, and a few other factors very quickly.

Also focus on your persuasive communication strategies and mindset. The way you talk to clients is very different from normal speech. By simply changing the structure of your sentences, you can get your clients to say YES more often. You can start using one of the most powerful skills I teach: Tying with a head nod. Work on writing all of your questions as statements that lead to the answer YES. Use it correctly and you will see a tremendous increase in your income very quickly. Remember all questions as statements such as “You wouldn’t mind if I sat down, would you?” Instead of “Can I sit with you?” These are tools that lead to the answer yes, and yes is the magic word for making sales. “It’s a beautiful day, isn’t it?” “You’re having a fun night so far aren’t you?” “This is a hot spot tonight, huh?” If you can get your customer to follow the pattern of saying yes, you will hook him. Close it with this one now … “You really would like a dance now, right?” If you say “No,” you break the pattern and momentum.

One more stripper tip: Remember to follow up with your clients, “Come back later” could really mean come back later, not just a hit. Start planting your seeds when the boys walk through the door, without saying “I want to dance.” Try this: “Hi, this is [insert YOUR name], Welcome to [insert name of your club], sit down, have fun, I’ll see you again later. ”This gives you a huge advantage over all the club members and he knows your name for later so make sure you use this to your advantage, it is a powerful tool.