Missing someone you love – How to miss her silently

Does your heart yearn for someone it couldn’t have? Has your mind played tricks on you by telling you that you should pick up your phone and call her drunk? Do you want to tell her that you love her back even though she told you that you should move on?

Missing someone you love who no longer feels the same way you do can be very discouraging and heartbreaking on your part. Missing someone you love could give you sleepless nights and yes, missing someone you love could make you feel hopeless and miserable to the core.

After a breakup, there is nothing more challenging than standing up for yourself and showing the world that you are not a loser. But then again, you couldn’t do much because at the end of the day, it’s still your loneliness that brings out the best in you. So how can you miss someone you love without making them feel like you’re stalking them? Much less give them an idea that you desperately want them back. How can you miss someone in silence?

Strategy #1: Just Miss Her

When you miss your ex, you just miss her: acknowledge the feeling but don’t let it control you. It’s natural to yearn for his presence or his love, but then again, you must also learn to let go when necessary. When you miss her, just think of the good times you had together and hold those memories close to your heart, and after she has made you smile, try to focus on other things afterwards.

Strategy #2: Write to him – in your Journal

Missing someone you love could give you a sudden burst of impulsivity, and because you tend to lose your logic when you feel this, you also tend to lose control. And as a result, you end up sabotaging your self-esteem and pride. When you feel the urge to write to your ex, then by all means…write them in your journal. In your journal, you can express everything you feel for her: your frustrations, your fears, and your pain. You can go all the way with your feelings and it can also be a very good therapy for you.

Strategy #3: Listen to your favorite songs

By listening to the songs that you once shared, you can have an outlet to release all the feelings that you have inside of you. A song is also a good way to reconnect and reminisce about the good memories you once shared; In this way, you will not have the anguish or bitterness every time you think about the love that failed you. Also remember that she loved you once too.

Strategy #4: Paint or make a poem

You don’t have to be a Michelangelo or a Shakespeare to do this, all you need is your heart to get the feeling of sadness out of your system. When a person feels pain and longing, he always has something to share with the world.