Love and Sadness – Does Your Heart Bleed?

If you love someone who is possessive and wants to put you in a cage so they can control you all the time, someone who doesn’t respect your wishes and preferences, someone who doesn’t care about your problems, or someone who doesn’t really care about you, in fact You are in love with your worst enemy.

What is the meaning of this relationship?

Is someone forcing you to have it?

Yes, your feelings are.

Your feelings are forcing you to put up with everything you dislike, because you just melt when you’re with him or her.

Your heart lives bleeding, but you can’t stop loving him, because he has the charm, the style, the face and body, the image and a thousand other things that you like.

What can you do?

You can learn to be wise and find the right person for you, instead of dwelling on the wrong relationship.

If your heart lives bleeding because of him or her, who does not understand you, this is a wrong relationship, even if you think it is ideal on many other points.

You may very much want to live with this person and believe that you are going to change them, however, don’t get your hopes up!

If someone is not what you would like them to be, don’t imagine that you can change their behavior. On the contrary, they are going to change your life, because they are going to completely ruin it.

Who are you able to change someone’s behavior?

Psychiatrists and psychologists try very hard to change the behavior of their patients, but they fail, because human behavior is something very difficult to transform.

Only through the analysis of dreams according to the scientific method can someone’s behavior be changed and the person can find the balance without any doubt. There are other methods that may work depending on each case, but the only guaranteed method for all cases is the scientific method of dream interpretation.

This is the bitter truth, because the transformation of someone’s behavior is a real surgical operation! It is not something simple.

Today I received a message with an old dream from a woman who was married to a man who was torturing her. Her eldest son already had many psychological problems.

My Dream: Both my husband and I are sleeping in our bed. The headboard has a 6-8″ book space equal to the length of the bed. A huge oversized black spider (half the size of the book space height) sat in the corner on a spinning web showing with her belly towards our heads, on my husband’s side of the bed. Of course, everything is black. Then, suddenly, the net becomes a silver chain with big links.

Biography: She was going through a breakdown at the time due to her abuse (emotional, physical, mental, financial, and sexual), and the marriage ended around ……… years later.

She was seeing a therapist at the time and she was unable to decipher this dream. I am afraid of black spiders.

And here is my translation:

The spider in dreams means something very important that you have to understand, otherwise you will have many problems in the future. Fortunately, you understood that you had to live far away from your husband! This was the important thing you had to understand then.

The double bed is related to the sexual relations of the couple. So, you had to understand something very important related to your marriage.

The spider that turns into a silver chain with large links was showing you that one bad deed brings another and so on, to show you that the consequences of living with this man would be too many.

Fortunately, you did the right thing, parting with this man, although you could not translate this important dream at the time!

He did the right thing, but only after many years… His life was ruined, he suffered a lot, and so did his children.

There are many similar examples like this.

Did you know that most divorced couples hate each other?

I remember the case of one of my friends, who refused to see her ex-husband after her divorce, because she hated him so much that she couldn’t stand his presence or talking to him on the phone.

When he wanted to pick up his then 7-year-old daughter, she dropped her daughter off at her parents’ house and he had to pick her up there, so they wouldn’t be in contact.

Imagine how much he hated it!

Today their relationship is civil, but when the divorce was still new, the situation was as I described.

Be very careful! If your heart is bleeding while you are not yet married, never marry this person!

If your heart is bleeding now, imagine how much it will bleed with all the additional problems you will have to deal with after your marriage, living all the time with a person who never cares how you feel…

Be serious!

This is your life and your happiness!

Find the right person for you and stay away from people who make you suffer.