Keeping positive memories: remembering a loved one who has passed away

LASTING MEMORIES OF THE LOST BELOVED

Whether you’re planning a funeral or just want to remember a lost loved one, there are many ways to celebrate their life at the funeral and beyond.

People often use a memorial book to capture feelings, sometimes they convey them at a funeral. One downside is that it tends to put people in a bind and they haven’t had a chance to collect their thoughts.

Some families create Funeral Service Sheets and add a photo; mourners can take them home and keep them as a way of remembering the deceased.

Of course, one way to celebrate life is through floral tributes, especially if they are in a favorite color or perhaps by spelling a word or in the form of an object. The flowers do not last long and can be expensive, although there are companies that can make products from the petals, such as creating a paperweight around them.

A scrapbook containing photos is a great way to capture the story of the deceased – by asking people to share their memories, this becomes a unique reference to their life that can be shared with others. We are more eager than ever to trace our family tree, it is a growing hobby and unless we capture the information ourselves, the next generation and the next will disconnect from their past.

The ashes of a loved one can be turned into diamonds, yes really! It is the exact same process but created in a matter of weeks. Diamonds are cut in exactly the same way as a traditional diamond and can look just as beautiful. Diamonds can be made using ashes or hair.

Ashes (or ashes, as they are commonly called) can also be turned into glass, and then the world is your oyster. Perhaps you would like a crystal vase or a jewel, a ring or a necklace. It is a unique way to have something very personal and to be able to keep your loved one close. It doesn’t help capture your life story, but it can bring you comfort.

Perhaps you would like to sponsor a bench in the deceased’s favorite park? You can then inscribe it so that everyone who passes can read the name and dates of the deceased. They are quite durable and people often choose to sit on them and reflect, which is exactly what you want to do after all when you think of a loved one.