I want to make a guy want me when he has already rejected me! 7 tips on how to make this happen

Well, this situation is complicated, isn’t it?

It may seem impossible, but it is not. In fact, you can win a guy back even if he has rejected you. This is how you do it:

get something away

It is very important to allow some time after the rejection has occurred. The last thing you want to do is act like the kind of girl you’re going to need a restraining order against.

So take a break. You need to let your wounds heal a bit, and he’s made it clear that he doesn’t want you around… for now anyway.

reopen communication

After a decent amount of time has passed (a month is a good goal), you can carefully try to re-establish communication.

How you do this depends on how close the two of you were and how intertwined you were in each other’s lives (did you work together, did you have mutual friends, etc.). The important thing is to keep this first interaction friendly and brief. .

Make him want to stay in touch with you

Now that you’ve resurfaced and he’s remembered you well, you’ll want to give him a good reason to keep in touch.

If he left something of his own at your house, great. You can always use that as your reason. It’s even better, though, to give him a more personal incentive: tell him about a cool event you know he’d like to be at, invite him to a mutual friend’s party, etc. You can even host your own gathering and make it so great that she won’t be able to resist going.

Keep things cool and casual

You have successfully worked to get back in touch with him and re-entered his life. Now, it’s important to keep your game face and not ruin him by being overly emotional or reopening the past with him.

Stay calm and mentally let go of the previous rejection. Don’t let yourself think about it. Make it clear that you have no expectations of him other than to be his friend. This will make his mind think why and it will also make him a little crazy; men always want what they cannot have. If you fold from the table as an option (or at least make him believe so), then you are automatically more attractive.

make him jealous

Once you’ve been back in each other’s lives for a while (it’s bad to do this too soon because it seems staged and obvious), it’s time to make him jealous and remind him how desirable you are.

Get your friends to help you out by spreading the word that you’re in a hot new situation with a new guy. He wants the word to return to the real object of his affection. Another way is to simply mention your new “relationship” casually to mutual friends or acquaintances.

start flirting

If the jealousy game was successful, he’ll soon be talking to you and might even act very friendly as he interrogates you for information about your new “relationship.”

Don’t ask him if he’s seeing someone, because you want him to think you don’t even care. Instead, get her blood boiling out of her a little with some very sexy memories and flirtations.

reroll it all

Now that you have him interested and intrigued by you again, cut it out.

Be strong and do this even if you don’t want to; it will benefit you in the long run and make his desire for you stronger if you don’t return his calls, texts, emails, etc. for a moment.

He wants to see you and talk to you, but he can’t. It is the perfect scenario and puts you in a privileged position to recover it. Once he sees you or talks to you again, he’ll be putty in your hands.