I want my ex boyfriend back, but he keeps running away!

“I want my ex back, but everything I do seems to push him away!” “How can I get my ex boyfriend back when everything I do seems to drive us further apart?”

I get questions like this every day from women who want to repair their relationships with their ex-boyfriends, but seem to push their exes away at every opportunity. It’s hard to find this delicate balance, especially since no one taught you how to do it!

What are these women doing wrong and what should they be doing right? I’m going to tell you.

The #1 Mistake Most Women Make And How To Avoid It

The biggest mistake you are probably making with your ex is that you are trying too hard. Do not be sad. It’s natural for you to want to call, text, email, or just talk to your ex boyfriend and try to work things out.

Unfortunately, it’s also natural for your ex to back off when he’s feeling pressured! Even if you don’t push him AT ALL, he probably feels pressured every time you talk to him after a breakup. Sorry ladies, that’s just the way we are!

Your ex boyfriend will NOT come back to you if he feels pressured or suffocated. He MIGHT get back to you if he starts missing you and he realizes how good you really are.

And that’s exactly what you need to do next: make your ex boyfriend miss you.

As?

There is a way.

How to make your ex boyfriend miss you

Let me give you a hint: your ex boyfriend can’t miss you if he hears about you every day!

“I want my ex back, but he won’t talk about getting back together when I call him.” That’s why you should stop calling him and let him learn to miss you a little.

Take a little time for yourself. If you just got out of a relationship, you probably need to do this anyway. Spend some healing time and get some “me time.” pamper yourself. Call your friends or family or anyone who makes you feel good about yourself when you talk to them.

I know this is easier said than done. But take it from a guy who’s been on the other side of a breakup: You’ll look MUCH more attractive if you can give your boyfriend a few days to miss you. This just requires a little discipline on your part.

If you can pull this off, you won’t just make your ex boyfriend miss you. You will also be mysterious to him again. We love those things!

So when will I get my ex boyfriend back?

Remember that this strategy is to work WITH human nature instead of AGAINST it. Human nature is not always what we want it to be. It’s quite frustrating at times (to put it mildly). And it can drive you and your ex crazy as you try to make things work after a breakup.

But if you mean it when you say “I want my ex boyfriend back”, you just have to have a little patience and let him miss you for a short while.

There are some rough guidelines for how long or short this period should be. It shouldn’t take long, but it should give you at least a week or two!

This is your preparation for the first step you need to take in getting your ex boyfriend back. Get this preparation right and you will have a much better chance of mending any broken relationships.