You have a wonderful sex life and you are both very open minded. They have both done almost everything and are actually going to venture down another path. You are looking for more sexual ideas and nothing is forbidden. The best way to start is to talk to your partner and ask what they would like to try. Here are some ideas to get you started.
(1) Use sex toys
Clothespins are wonderful toys. They can be attached to any part of the body (for example, on the nipples) and the sensation is quite intense. The longer they are on, the more intense the sensation will be when they are removed. You can clip the clothespins on the nipples or anywhere along the breasts; along the dies, arms, legs and thighs and just about anywhere else you can imagine. For a more intense feel, plastic clothespins will be better than wooden ones, and small clothespins will have a sharper “bite” than large clothespins.
A pair of chopsticks and a pair of rubber bands can also be used to make impromptu tweezers. Place the sticks above and below the nipples, or along each side of the clitoris, and join them with a rubber band at the ends.
Ordinary dental floss is a great nipple bondage. Tie a slipknot in a piece of dental floss and pull it snugly over your nipples.
Multi-spell brushes are great on bare skin, especially when you’re blindfolded. For example, a soft brush like a shaving or makeup brush can be alternated with a stiff brush like a toothbrush on the breasts, nipples, thighs, sides, etc. An electric toothbrush is a wonderful sex toy when used on the clitoris.
Ice is a great all-purpose sex toy that can be used in a variety of ways. You can run an ice cube over her body, especially when she is blindfolded or tied up; or put an ice cube in your mouth and run your lips and tongue over your body.
Feather is also a great way to turn her on. It can be any kind of feather, but I highly recommend buying feather products from a craft store, not a sex shop, because those real bird feathers you find on the ground can contain parasites and germs. A peacock feather is common because the end is round and blunt. Blindfold him first and you can tie him up if you want. You run the feather over her body and apply some tickle torture. The premise of tickle torture is that she fights against you but she can’t stop herself from being tickled and she can’t even scratch the itch because she’s being tied up.
(2) Wear light bondage
If you want to explore bondage, the easiest way to do it is with plain old cotton or nylon rope. Nylon stockings and silk scarves can cause problems because they tend to bunch up and become difficult to untie. When experimenting with bondage, it’s always a good idea to have a plan to untie your partner quickly if need be. A good tip is to keep a pair of bondage scissors handy, which you can get cheaply at most drugstores.
You can tie your partner to the bed, to a chair, or simply tie their hands behind their back. Once you have her tied up, you can either kneel over her and tell her to give you oral sex, or you can penetrate her. Or, you can try sensation play, like running your hands or ice cubes or makeshift sex toys all over her body. Blindfolding can make these sensations more intense. You can add some light pain play to the mix by pinching, tugging, or twisting your nipples. Biting or teasing her with your tongue or fingers can also be a lot of fun.
For introductory pain play, spanking, pinching, and biting can be good ways to start. You can tilt him on your lap or, for a little more fun, you can tie him tilted on the bed. You can combine this with role-playing games. You will act as the teacher who disciplines a naughty student. You can whip it with your hands, a paddle, or even a wooden spoon. Start with light, quick movements, and gradually you can get those endorphins (hormones related to pleasure), which is exciting and intoxicating.