How to control your boyfriend without him knowing! These are the tips you should read

You want to control your boyfriend and you’re on the right track, because the first rule of thumb is to not let him know that’s what you’re really trying to do. And here are the rest of the steps you need to follow…

Let him take care…

…or at least let him think he is. Men want to be great, they want to be “the man”. Let it be so. He allows him to fly and glide, while you are the wind under his wings, the invisible force that directs him.

be the lady…

…that does not wait to be rescued. You are a kind, girly and nice woman on the outside (but hard as a rock on the inside), but you are trying to get down the tower on your own. What do you think I would do? He would try to be your knight in shining armor and rush to your rescue, of course.

convince him…

…instead of making demands. Don’t try to force him to take off his coat by huffing and puffing because he will hold onto it tighter. Be the sun, gently shining on him, and he himself will decide to take off his jacket.

If you tie it with a leash…

…then make absolutely sure you don’t choke on it. Let him play and be with the boys. Give it room to grow. Make your leash very long so he won’t notice it’s there, and only pull on it when absolutely necessary.

Don’t clash horns with him…

…because you don’t have any. Only the males grow them, you see. So don’t try to argue with him, logic for logic, because he won’t back down. Instead, gently pet him and he will drop his defense wall.

Rate it…

…for the things he does for you. When you learn to take note of his little efforts to please you (instead of criticizing him for his mistakes), he’ll be encouraged to do more.

Treat him like a person…

… and not like a doll (in all senses of the word). Show him respect. He will stay with you not only because of how he feels about you, but also because of how you make him feel about himself.

Oh, and remember, he has to do things for you because he’s convinced that’s what he wants and not because you “manipulated” him into doing it.