Best dating tips for long distance relationships

Let me set the scene. After driving for miles and miles, you can finally see your long distance lover. You decide to go to the movies. You have selected a good movie to watch. You have the popcorn. The lights begin to dim and they both fall silent.

Anyone else see what’s wrong with this picture?

You may be lucky enough to have an entire weekend together, or maybe just a couple of hours, regardless of how much time you plan to spend with your partner, choosing a date where both of you are silent the entire time is NOT the best idea. .

A better idea would be to pick a few dates that you can chat and bond with them. I’m sure you can think of some better ideas if you really put your mind to it. But in case you’re having trouble, here are our favorites.

looking at the stars

Get in your car and drive 20 minutes away from bright lights. Put a blanket on the floor and get some hot chocolate. For the smart people among you, there is an amazing iPhone app called “Star Walk” where you can track all the stars in the sky. This is a great opportunity to chat, share stories, and really bond with each other.

ice skating

An ice rink date can be one of the most fun of all. As you skate, you’ll find yourself grabbing hands with your teammates. If this is your first time skating, you may fall a lot. But you shouldn’t worry, on the ice from time to time. People, always remember to offer your girl a hand when she recovers. And ladies, please don’t laugh too hard when you see your boy fall. This date can get pretty physical and pretty soon I’m sure you’ll be pretending to trip just so you can hold on to each other.

Mountaineering

Pack a picnic, a map, and spend the day outside together. Be sure to bring a camera for those perfect photo moments, and remember to pack a makeshift first aid kit and plenty of drinking water. This can be a great activity to develop your decision-making skills and work together.

Aquarium

This is a great date idea if you have an aquarium in your city or town. Chances are that during the morning hours it will be fairly quiet and offer wonderful views of fish, penguins and even dolphins zipping through the waters. You could sit all day and chat with each other, learn interesting things about the fish, and also learn about yourselves.

Restaurant

It doesn’t have to be expensive, but it can be if you want. Sometimes your loved one will be genuinely grateful that you cook them a meal. No matter where you choose to have your dinner date, there is nothing better than eating with candles and a rose on the table. And folks, let me give you some good advice. A girl will love it when you cook her a fancy meal. Some form of pasta is better for me. Just remember that spaghetti isn’t just for a couple of cartoon dogs to enjoy.