9 tips for reading her sexual language

Are you flirting? Smiling? Eye contact? How to pick up on his flirting cues. Interpreting your sexual body language has never been easier.

1: She starts preening herself: This is also known as making sure she looks her best. Standing taller, tucking in the belly, and sticking out the breasts are spontaneous and instantaneous gestures that interest women. This will be followed by smoothing down her skirt or dress, playing with her hair and jewelry, and then disappearing into the ladies’ room to take a look. Adjusting and controlling appearances is a great sign of flirting with body language. If you catch her looking at your butt on your way to the bar, or she starts fixing her hair when your back is turned, you know she’s sexually interested.

2 eyes. His eyes say it all. A flirting woman will usually send you 3 sidelong glances. She’ll get a second look to confirm that she liked what they saw and a third if they’re considering talking to you.

The 4 second scan. We look at uninteresting people for 3 seconds or less. A definite sign of interest is when the girl keeps shooting 4 second glances in your direction.

How the flirtatious woman breaks your gaze. This is even more important than how she has been looking at you. If she looks to the side or around the room, you’ve lost interest in her. If her eyes drop to the ground before looking up again to meet yours in 30 to 60 seconds, you have a chance. Downcast eyes followed by a grooming cue such as playing or tossing her hair indicates that she is liking what she is seeing.

If you are looking at her and your eyes meet, a woman who flirts often will lift her upper eyelids slightly and quickly. This is a very subtle eye-opening movement that says, “I’m looking at you.”

Zero visual communication means zero connection. It’s time to move on to someone else. A raised eyebrow usually indicates a question of some kind. The more you look someone in the eye, the more attractive, confident, and sincere you appear.

3ft. Feet can be a great indicator of the flirting woman’s true feelings. Few people notice what they are doing with their feet unconsciously because they are so far away from our faces. This puts them very high on the credibility scale.

By pointing a foot towards you, the flirting woman tells you that you are welcome to join her group.

It’s a bit defensive if you have one leg crossed over the other, but as long as one foot is still pointed at you, it still looks good. Once he uncrosses his legs and starts mimicking your foot position, that’s a better sign that he likes you.

His foot between your feet is an obvious sexual body language gesture. Better yet, if you must bend your knee and have him touch your knee or leg while both of you are standing. Both suggest strong messages of sexual flirtation.

4: Body posture: The flirting woman has her shoulders back and her breasts forward. A hand placed on a hip that sticks out sexy is a flirtatious sign for you to join her. Placing one hand on the back of her hip can also be a gesture to emphasize her small waist. Arching her spine into a ‘C’ shape exposing both her breasts and bottom is flirting with body language, inviting him to watch her.

A strongly sexual body language cue is when she begins to lean forward bringing her arms closer to her body, pressing into her breasts and deepening her cleavage.

Playing with her necklace is another subconscious flirting gesture. His toying with the jewels around her neck invites you to look at her breasts. A definite erotic sign to you that he’s flirting is when he starts stroking his throat, neck, or upper chest. The signal is even stronger if you combine stroking with a neck bow. By tilting her head to show you more of his neck, she is hinting that she is beginning to trust you. Throats and necks are the “lovers’ zones”, places where no one else touches us. Stroking her neck or chest also draws his gaze to her breasts.

5: Play with her hair: Fluffing her hair, running your fingers through her hair, and the strongest body language flirt signal, tossing her hair, are all designed to show her that you’re available.

6: Her Legs – While sitting, women often cross their legs to look sexy, feminine, or just to show them off. The more the legs are crossed over the thighs, the stronger the sexual signal. If she smiles back at you, shows eye contact, and rests a hand on her lap, this is extremely strong sexual body language. Running the hands along the thighs is another common grooming signal for women when in the company of someone they find sexually attractive.

By sitting with her legs out to the side, she is making an obvious attempt to make her legs look longer and make herself good to whoever is looking at her. The more frequently she crosses and uncrosses her legs while she’s in front of you, the better your chances. The more thigh he exposes, the more likely he is to be horny for you.

If you are in a barefoot situation, she will start tiptoeing around if she thinks attractive men are around. By doing this, her legs look longer, her body slimmer and, in general, she looks more feminine.

7: Her wrists and palms: Women will show their wrist to someone they are interested in. As you play with your hair or fidget with an earring, check to see if your wrist is turned toward you with your palm facing out. As he shows you the doll, he says, “You can come closer to me.”

8: Does she want to kiss you? If she’s doing any of this, then the answer is probably YES!

Licking her lips. When faced with something exciting, everyone licks their lips.

Eating and drinking suggestively, sucking and licking their fingers. All ways to advertise your talents.

Keep touching her mouth. Everyone’s lips swell when we get aroused, making us more aware of them and more likely to play with them.

Putting his head close to yours: This is almost always an invitation to kiss.

Head tilt: getting into position on a subconscious level.

9: Does she want more? Towards the end of the encounter you can check her intentions with this little test. He takes a step towards her and then quickly backs up. If she is interested, now she will step forward to close the gap without even realizing that she is doing it.

The other trick to try is to lower your voice to a whisper. If he stays where he is and yells at you that he can’t hear you, then he’s not going to come any closer.

What the color of her clothes says about her:

Red: He is happy to be the center of attention and is not afraid of his feelings.

Black: Stylish, chic and original.

Beige: Uncertain.

White: Look at me.

Navy Blue: Get on with business.

Light blue: Composite.

Hot Pink: Wants to stand out from the crowd.

Light Pink: Fragile.

The art of flirting and interpreting sexual body language has never been easier to understand. Never misread the situation again! Apply these dating tips and date right now!

Good luck, Coco Swan.