What we men can learn from lesbians!

Unfortunately guys, the portrayal of lesbians in the world of porn and also, for the most part, our own view of lesbians is totally different than the real world. However, there is so much we can learn from lesbians to improve our own performance!

So, believe it or not, innocent pillow fights or hair braiding that then naturally leads to a hard girl-on-girl 69 followed by hard strap-on work just doesn’t happen that much in the real world, hardly ever actually. ! If that’s your idea of ​​lesbian sex, I’m sorry to say it, but you’re way off! The best thing though is that by learning about the true lesbian experience and then adapting it to your own lovemaking, your own sexual performance and ultimately your and your partner’s sexual satisfaction will explode to heights never before achieved!

Most men would be absolutely devastated to learn that most women think men are pretty boring in the sack! Most lesbians, especially in relationships, report a significantly higher level of sexual satisfaction than straight women. This is largely because women have very different needs in bed and during sex than men, which is why lesbians are so fulfilled and satisfied. They know what they want and how to do it!

Men can sometimes treat sex like a job or a means to an end and it can seem like a pretty planned event. For example, getting it wet and ready, crawling inside it, thrusting furiously until you get the rocks off, then rolling over and falling asleep.

Women want, and lesbians bring, a completely different experience to the bedroom. Kissing, touching, sucking, caressing and massaging are things that women love. They make them wild and on edge. Have you been spending time in these areas or have you been ignoring them?

Because men sometimes have a sequence of events in mind that always leads to the ultimate goal of the man ejaculating, the magic ingredient of successful sex and love is missing, forgotten, or simply ignored. And that ingredient is in maximizing the pleasure of both parties, or put more clearly, your enjoyment and pleasure of him! So while men just want to climax, the experience is very different for women.

When two lesbians have sex or make love, they are not selfishly thinking about how it will end for them and they are not thinking about a common goal of a thunderous orgasm and that’s it! For women, as we should all know by now, an orgasm is not the end of the act. Plus, every look, touch, and feel between orgasms is part of the overall experience. They savor the softness of their skin, the warmth of their partner’s body, the smell of their breath and body, and most importantly, how their partner reacts and responds to every touch and caress. It is primarily about two people coming together for mutual pleasure and shared intimacy.

Great I hear you say! So lesbians have it all; an insider knowledge and understanding of exactly what a woman wants and how to give it to her. Well yes, that’s true, but the great news for you and indeed all men is that this works for us with our heterosexual partners as well. You don’t need to have a vagina to make sensual and emotional love with your partner! Women want intimacy, women want foreplay, and most of all, women want to be pleased and involved in the entire process of lovemaking and sex, and not just a mere tool to help you get unstuck! Don’t worry guys, it’s not all roses and massages, your girl will undoubtedly have moments when all she wants is a good quick, rough fuck and that’s it! All I’m trying to get across here is that, for the most part, if you want to receive great sex on a regular basis, then you have to play your part in providing great sex!

I have discovered that what I work the most is pleasing women first and without worrying about my own needs; Everything is returned to me with interest! After men have an orgasm, all we want to do is go to sleep! Give your woman orgasms and she will usually continue, often even in a heightened state of arousal and enjoyment. Once you get your partner to this level, you will find that she is more than happy to give you almost anything you want!

The key message here is to remember that women absolutely savor the pleasure they give you. Although there are some out there, most women don’t really like fucking us men as something they specifically enjoy. They do it and then they like it for the pleasure it gives them as a result of pleasing you!

Making love in such a selfless way turns on and satisfies all of our senses and is pretty much the main reason lesbians do it better than us! Do not miss the pleasure that you can also give and earn. Learn what you can from lesbians and then come back and put it into practice at home. I guarantee your partner will absolutely appreciate it!

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