How Dirty Talk Can Spice Up Your Sex Life

As much as we hate to admit it, the fact is that a couple’s sex life can get a little boring. It’s not that you don’t love your partner yet, it’s just that physical intimacy can get a little… choreographed. It has been suggested in numerous studies that a cooling off in the sexual intimacy department can be expected in a relationship after a few years. There is something called the honeymoon period in which we are intoxicated by the aroma of a blossoming romance; it envelops us and puts rose-colored glasses over our eyes. As naive as it may seem in hindsight, that sentiment is incredible! It’s exciting. How can you begin to bring that feeling back into your relationship?

One of the best, and often overlooked, ways to bring some excitement back into your love routine is to add a little red-hot dirty talk to the mix. You can laugh, even snort, but I’m serious! You’d be surprised how dirty talk can really reinvigorate a laid-back sex life.

Bringing some dirty talk into the bedroom usually requires a certain level of trust and intimacy, especially if it’s your first time using this “love language.” In fact, it can be a bit disconcerting. Don’t stress too much though (after all, that would defeat the purpose :). There is no pressure to try to top Jenna Jameson. If your man is comfortable with that, you can start by leaving sexy notes in places where he is sure to find them. From there, he can take things further and add more sizzle to the pan. Just make sure you have open communication with his partner and don’t cross any boundaries he may have.

Now that you’ve learned a bit about how dirty talk can make bed springs shake in a slightly different way, try it yourself. Have fun!